Sexless Marriage

How Can I Get My Husband To Be More Interested In Sex

Q.How can I get my husband to be more interested in sex ?
Are you suffering because your husband won’t have sex with you?  Know that you’re not  alone.  Approximately fifteen to twenty percent of married couples are intimate only ten times a year or less.  This kind of lack of intimacy places a tremendous strain on the marriage and is one of the major causes of divorce.  Many times, the problem is that the husband is the one who doesn’t want to have sex with his wife.  Women in this kind of situation often feel that there must be something wrong with them if their husband is not interested in being intimate with them.  They feel that they are not attractive, or that their husbands aren’t happy with them, or are in some other way undesirable.  They don’t  know how else to account for his lack of interest.

Some common questions these women ask are:  How can I get my husband to be more interested in sex?  Why doesn’t he want sex?  Why won’t he initiate it?  They often feel that his lack of interest is because there’s something wrong with them.

The truth is though, that while their feelings are understandable, they are looking at the situation from the wrong perspective.  A man’s lack of interest in intimacy with his wife is only a symptom of other underlying problems in the relationship.  If those problems are resolved, the bedroom problems will go away. This is very important to keep in mind. Sometimes the advice that women will get is that they need to get kinky in the bedroom and start wearing sexy adult costumes or other things like that. But the real solution is to look into the marriage itself and see what needs to be fixed there.

Women who suffer in a sexless marriage should know that you do have the power to change the situation and save your marriage.  You can make their husbands interested in being with you and increase his sex drive, you just need to take the initial step off looking to see what your intrinsicmarriage problems are and start fixing them.

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