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Husband Doesn’t Want Sex: How To Start Changing That Now

It’s a worldwide problem.  Women in every country have reported husbands who have little to no sex drive.  If you find yourself in this situation where sex is infrequent or even nonexistent, you’re not alone.

Women in this situation experience a tremendous amount of distress.  They feel rejected, undesirable, unattractive, experience low self esteem, and often fear the eventuality of divorce.  While a man’s diminished sex drive usually has nothing to do with how attractive his wife is, it is a big red flag; a sign of real problems in the marriage that need to be addressed before the situation diminishes to the point where it cannot be repaired.

Why does your husband experience such a low libido? Why is he not interested in having sex?

One possibility is that he might be experiencing a hormone deficiency,  but this is extremely rare.  If your husband doesn’t want to have sex with you as often as you would like, you need to realize that this is most likely indicative of a fundamental problem at the root of your marriage.  Usually this occurs because your relationship falls into an unhealthy routine and “goes stale,” so to speak.

One thing that men need is diversity.  They can’t lose interest quickly no matter what the topic is, unless new and exciting things are happening.  Because of this it’s vital to make sure that your relationship is is always fresh, and exciting, in an unpredictable way.  I don’t mean just in the bedroom.  I’m speaking about every aspect of your relationship.

This doesn’t mean that you need to go crazy constantly coming up with new ideas and unusual things to do.  You simply need to make breaks in your routine,  going for walks together, getting out on a romantic getaway, trying out a fun new hobby together that you haven’t done before, and trying out some new tricks in bed.

If the nature and rhythm of the of the marriage constantly changes and becomes more exciting, your husband will also begin to view you in the more positive and appealing light.  At this point it will be much easier to increase your husband’s sex drive. So before you turn to herbal remedies for low sex drive, try to take a look at your marriage and see where you can spice things up.

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  1. Amy on January 12th, 2012 1:09 am

    There is no way to change my husbands sexless ways. Weve been married 45 years and righy after the I DO’s were done things went down hill. We had terrific sex on our wedding night, it went on all night. Then it stopped on the second day of marriage. He cancelled our honey moon cause he wanted to start building a small apartment in our basement. With that started he moved down stairs and hasn’t slept with me since. also he transfered to the midnight shift and was there all his working life. We never saw each other or talked let alone have any affection or sex.He has been very selfish, and selfcentered. Why I didn’t leave him, I think back then it wasn’t something that married couples didn’t do. I’ve felt sorry fo myself, I’ve been depressed, mad and ugly all these years. Never get mixed up with some one like this.

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