Sexless Marriage | Tips For Women In A Sexless Marriage: Part 1

Tips For Women In A Sexless Marriage: Part 1

Are you suffering in a sexless marriage and looking for ways to change it for the better?  If so, here are a few tips that I think you will find useful.

1.  The first thing you need to do is to stop thinking with your heart and start thinking with your head.  When you doesn’t when your husband doesn’t want to have sex with you is a very emotional and it’s understandable that you would be thinking emotionally.  But if you want to change things you need to be more objective and not let your decisions be colored by your emotions.

2.  Don’t think that the situation is all about you.  Many women blame themselves when their husband shows no sexual interest in them.  This is understandable, and you’re probably feeling alone, confused, and rejected.  But the problem is in sexless marriages rarely have to do with the wife’s desirability and are usually the products of deeper marital issues.

3.  Don’t victimize yourself.  I know that you are suffering and feel stuck in this horrible situation.  But feeling sorry for yourself is not going to help you make your husband more interested in sex nor is it going to make you more attractive to him.  Instead of feeling victimized, if you want your situation to change, you need to realize that you have the power to alter the direction your love life has taken and turn things around.  Remember, if your husband doesn’t want to have sex with you, he probably doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with the situation– so if things are going to change it’s entirely up to you to make it happen.

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