Sexless Marriage | Tips For Women In A Sexless Marriage: Part 2

Tips For Women In A Sexless Marriage: Part 2

4.  Don’t fall into that trap of assigning blame.  When things go wrong in a marriage, especially to this degree, it’s easy and common to start blaming yourself or your husband.  But playing the blame game isn’t going to change any thing.  It takes two to tango, as they say.

Remember that there are two people in your marriage, and the situation and the current state of that marriage is a product of those two people’s actions until now.  But it really doesn’t matter who’s fault the problem is, what matters is that it changes, and that is up to you.

5.  Look behind you.  Sexless marriage is very rarely that way from the start.  They are most often the products and symptoms of deep relationship issues between husband and wife that often have nothing to do with sex.

Try to think of what your relationship was like before these problems began.  How are things different now than they were before?  Doing this will help you isolate the causes of your current situation, and then you will be able to start to figure out how to bring things back to the way they used to be.

6.  Look ahead.  Of course, you can always make your life and marriage just the way they used to be.  Times have changed, children have been born or are getting older, careers and have progressed, and health issues may have developed.  There are so many things  that may have changed your life.  But this doesn’t mean that you can’t still change your relationship for the better.

If you realize that there’s a stress now that wasn’t there before you can still take steps to reduce the impact of that stress factor.  For example, in some cases the marriage turned sexless after children come into the picture.  If that is the case with yours, you can’t simply make your kids disappear.  However you can ensure that you and your husband have time away from the children just for the two of you.  It may be a really great idea to go away for a long weekend to be ignited the flame of your passion

Changes take time and effort, but the rewards are immeasurable .  Leaving behind the stage of your marriage players husband doesn’t want to have sex, will be a tremendous relief .  Keep looking forward to the joy you will experience when your husband makes passionate love to you whenever you want it and when your relationship will once again be close and deep.

Filed Under Sexless Marriage, Women In Sexless Marriages | Leave a Comment

Tagged With

Comments

Leave a Reply